{"id":5979,"date":"2015-02-13T08:46:39","date_gmt":"2015-02-13T08:46:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.angelsmarti.com\/?p=5979"},"modified":"2016-09-13T08:57:11","modified_gmt":"2016-09-13T08:57:11","slug":"mare-fem-un-pacte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.angelsmarti.com\/ca\/mama-fem-un-pacte\/","title":{"rendered":"Mare, fem un pacte"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"JUSTIFY\">En l\u2019\u00faltim seminari al qual vaig assistir, d\u2019en <strong>Guy Auloos<\/strong>, un terapeuta familiar canadenc, em va entusiasmar la idea que va compartir amb els assistents: <strong>En el m\u00f3n existeixen les grans normes i les petites normes.<\/strong>. I afegia: permet que el teu fill \u201cguanyi\u201d en les petites normes ja que en lo dem\u00e9s guanyen els pares, i va matissar, fins l\u2019adolesc\u00e8ncia clar!<\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\">Aquestes<strong> Les petites normes s\u00f3n importants perqu\u00e8 s\u00f3n negociables i permeten al nen guanyar<\/strong>. Mentre el <strong>El nen surt victori\u00f3s en les petites normes.<\/strong>, cap al <strong>8-9 anys<\/strong> va desenvolupant <strong>l'autoseguretat i la confian\u00e7a en un mateix<\/strong>, afavorint una adolesc\u00e8ncia de menys risc.<\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\">Explicava que les petites normes estan relacionades amb les adquisicions, mentre que les grans normes, amb els valors i la visi\u00f3 del m\u00f3n de la fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\">Un exemple de petita norma ens deia: menjar xocolata abans de dinar, no cada dia per\u00f2 s\u00ed deixar que el nen guanyi el dissabte. I un exemple de gran norma: no picar, no insultar\u2026 Aquesta \u00e9s innegociable.<\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\">El meu fill de 3 anys i mig negocia amb tot all\u00f2 que \u00e9s del seu inter\u00e8s. Li encanta negociar sobre si jugar una estona m\u00e9s abans d'anar a la dutxa, si fer dutxa o bany, si mirar un cap\u00edtol m\u00e9s dels dibuixos preferits...<\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><strong><span style=\"line-height: 1.5;\">SITUACIONS QUE A CASA ENS FUNCIONEN:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><strong>Permet que \u201cperdi\u201d en alguna situaci\u00f3 <\/strong>quotidiana concreta, sobretot aquella que <strong>ens porta al conflicte<\/strong>allargar l'estona de joc, triar dutxa o bany, menjar un tros de xocolata,... I acordes amb ell quant de temps m\u00e9s o quina quantitat. Per exemple 5 minuts m\u00e9s, i li dius: quan acabi de fer la trucada, el temps de posar l'olla al foc i posar-hi la verdura,... I compleixes-ho! Els nens s\u00f3n grans detectors de la mentida.<\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><strong>BENEFICIS:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><strong>T'estalvies enfrontaments<\/strong>, que a la llarga nom\u00e9s porten malestar, frustraci\u00f3, incomprensi\u00f3 i desesperaci\u00f3 a totes les parts, nens i adults. <strong>Segur que et va b\u00e9 esperar 5 minuts m\u00e9s que acabi de jugar o prefereixes la dutxa al bany? <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\">El nen <strong>apren que les petites normes s\u00f3n flexibles<\/strong>. Viu en primera persona que <strong>la vida \u00e9s flexible i canviant<\/strong> i que cal trobar maneres d'adaptar-nos-hi des del <strong>saber arribar a acords<\/strong> i no des de la imposici\u00f3.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><strong>Evita caure en el parany de \u201cel fill no mana, qu\u00e8 s'ha pensat!\u201d<\/strong>: res m\u00e9s lluny de la realitat, <strong>El nen\/a busca petites vict\u00f2ries<\/strong> que li donen un <strong>control cert sobre la seva vida<\/strong>, fet que <strong>lo fa sentir m\u00e9s responsable, segur de si mateix i aut\u00f2nom<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\">Ja ho saps! No es tracta de delegar la responsabilitat d'educar els nostres fills, sin\u00f3 d'implicar-los en el proc\u00e9s, encara que aix\u00f2 impliqui \u201ccedir\u201d en alguna petita norma!<\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><strong>\u00c0ngels Mart\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>En l\u2019\u00faltim seminari que vaig anar d\u2019en Guy Auloos, terapeuta familiar canadenc, em va entusiasmar la idea que va compartir amb els assistents: en el m\u00f3n existeixen les grans normes i les petites normes. I afegia: permet que el teu fill \u201cguanyi\u201d en les petites normes ja que en lo dem\u00e9s guanyen els pares, i [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5980,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>\u00c0ngels Mart\u00ed - Psic\u00f3loga para el Bienestar emocional en Altas Capacidades<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Psic\u00f3loga especialista en Altas Capacidades (consulta presencial en Girona y online).\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.angelsmarti.com\/ca\/mare-fem-un-pacte\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"ca_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u00c0ngels Mart\u00ed - 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